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Planning Ahead
How far ahead do you plan things such as vacations or family trips?
We tend to plan them pretty far out as we have to save up to be able to take them. Even the dog shows are planned out anywhere from a year to a month ahead. Part of the reasoning for that is because of entries closing, but mostly that’s how we are. At the beginning of the year, we block out the shows we want to attend so we can co-ordinate with our respective companies taking vacation and plan which dogs will be entered where. We often have to wait until the premium list comes out (usually about 6 weeks before the show date) to finalize those plans as if the judges don’t suit that particular dog, we have to shift around, but it usually works out OK. Sometimes we plan to attend our National Specialty which is a once a year event and is a week-long one, so that takes some extra planning and coordination.
For our twenty-fifth wedding anniversary, my husband and I planned out (and paid for) much of the trip nearly a year ahead of the date. We wanted it to be the perfect celebration for a special date in our lives and it was! We had a great time in Las Vegas!
We’re already thinking about where we want to go and what we want to do for our 30th. I’ve always wanted to go to Europe, England specifically, so think we’re going to go there. While it may be five years off, there’s quite a bit of planning to do! I have to get a passport (something that in this day and age takes a bit of time to accomplish), get visas for the countries we want to visit and decide if we want to just fly over or schedule one of those European cruises. We both enjoyed the Bahamas cruise we took on our 20th anniversary and Ken would like to take another cruise, so that may be just the ticket. I would love input from you guys on things we should see and places we should visit. Right now we’re planning for at least a week long trip.
What about other major events in your life?
Most people plan their weddings, but have you planned your funeral? While we’ve certainly discussed this, we have not taken the steps to plan this event out. My mother on the other hand, has hers completely planned and paid for. I’m thinking Ken and I need to get on the stick about this, too. It’s rather comforting to know that when my mom dies, I won’t have to worry about planning and paying for her funeral and burial. It will be sad enough without all that. We need to give that same peace of mind to our kids.
We didn’t plan the birth of our kids, but I’m reading where more and more couples are. I think that’s a good thing up to a point. By planning for a child, you make sure you have the basic expenses covered, and are ready mentally and emotionally for the added responsibility.
Planning for education is pretty common, too. Usually it’s the parent planning for their children, but when you’re my age, and need or want higher education, I have to plan for myself. It’s not quite as easy as it is when you’re a teenager entering college for the first time. Something that struck me when investigating getting a second degree was the return I could expect on my “investment”. The degree course was going to cost over $30,000. I had to ask myself was I going to recoup that cost in the years left to my retirement. Was that a reasonable question to ask?
Do your plans include disaster?
While we don’t live in a part of the country that is subject to very many natural disasters such as storms, flooding or earthquakes, it still makes sense to have some plans in place in case of the worst. When I lived in Florida, we had staples stored for hurricanes and when I lived in California, having similar things available for earthquakes was taken for granted. Living in South Carolina, I have not planned for any disasters. Am I leaving myself open for trouble?
What other things do you plan for? What’s the furthermost out you planned for something? Are you like me and despite the best planning, still manage to forget something? What do you suggest I do to prevent that?
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